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How does one succeed in life?

13.06.2025 03:23

How does one succeed in life?

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

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The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

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In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

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Does not procrastinate.

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“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

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Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

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Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

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What I need from you?

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Why don’t people want the American Dream anymore - marriage, kids, a dog, and the white picket fence?

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Making more friends is a goal.

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Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Procrastinates a lot.

That's it for today.

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Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Do not set goals—set systems.

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Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Ask yourself:

Is it okay for my husband to help other ladies without telling me?

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

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Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

I broke up with my boyfriend because he wasn’t transparent about his past, it hurts me and he doesn’t care. I told him in the beginning of our relationship that it was a deal breaker for me what do I do?

Hangs out with loser friends.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

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Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.